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2 Year Update: My (Less) Overwhelming Reality of BPD Recovery

If you were to ask me what BPD recovery looks like, I could only speak to my personal experience of recovery. I have to admit, reading back through this post from almost 2 years ago on my recovery journey, it strikes me how far I have come in that time. It stings a little and I still notice a hint of shame, but I’m so glad it exists. Since I first wrote...

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Why Healing Trauma Starts With Creating Safety (& How to Feel Safe Again)

Something that I’m only just starting to realise, after struggling to "fix" myself for over 10 years with no success, is just how instrumental physical and emotional safety actually are to healing. We’ve all heard the phrase “You can’t heal in the same place that hurt you.” But how do we apply that expression to… Continue reading Why Healing Trauma Starts With Creating Safety (& How to Feel Safe Again)

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Why Does Shame Feel So Big?

Why Does Shame Feel So Big? Today has been a little bit of a rollercoaster for my nervous system. It’s safe to say that out of all the emotions I experience, none hit me quite as viscerally as shame does. Even when its intensity absolutely does not fit the facts of the situation. But why… Continue reading Why Does Shame Feel So Big?

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65 Gratitude Journal Examples for Inspiration in 2025

Today, I wanted to talk about something that has been incredibly powerful and transformative in my life in the last few months: gratitude. I know, you’ve heard it all before, but hear me out. As someone who’s in recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder and has been training to use Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) as a… Continue reading 65 Gratitude Journal Examples for Inspiration in 2025